beanbag tales: Post # 6 - Where does writing come from?

I was lucky to meet a group of very interesting people on Saturday at the DWL (Desi Writers' Lounge) Write-in session. We had an interesting discussion on writing which quickly jumped from 'what are you working on at the moment' to 'why and how do you write'.

The responses, as expected, were varied and quite fascinating. One gentleman said that for every task, including writing, one must have a burning desire. No desire = no result. Another participant was of the view that writing either comes from euphoria or tragedy. Travel too, he felt, helps one to write better - experience the world with all your senses and then write was his mantra. Two ladies weren't in agreement over this. One of them, a poet, felt that it wasn't necessary to experience feelings, for e.g., darkness, in order to write about them. The other lady was of the opinion that the human mind has unlimited imaginative powers and it is not essential for one to travel in order to write well.

Like I said, it was a very intense discussion. Was there a conclusion? Did we reach a common ground? Yes and no. But it did get me thinking - where does writing come from? What is that place inside us or in our environment that creates stories?

Observations, not experiences - I feel writers, more than any other artist, need to be super observant. There are so many things around us which can provide inspiration for stories or characters. A conversation with a stranger, an abandoned house, a clothes line on the terrace of a crumbling mansion, an old photograph, a fleeting glimpse of a woman in a bus with kohl rimmed eyes or a man seated next to his suitcase on a flight (I've seen this and yet not written a story around it!) - anything can trigger a story.

Write without fear - As far as my writing is concerned, I'm almost always afraid. I think this fear took hold of me in Grade 5. I wrote a story about a girl who had two pet rabbits. I named the rabbits in my story after the pet rabbits of a close friend of mine. Anyways, I killed the rabbits in the story and my friend was extremely upset with me. And in Grade 5 when the most popular boy, who also happens to be your friend, gets upset at you there are serious consequences and repercussions. Okay, nothing so dramatic but I think this fear has now occupied a permanent space inside my system. Fear of others. Fear of how the world will react to my story. Fear of not writing the right story. Just this deep rooted fear that nobody, ever, will read anything I write. The best stories come from a place where they can grow without fear.

Give your imagination a free hand - The problem is that from the time we're small and learning to draw and colour, we're told that the sky is blue and the grass is green. If, God forbid, we colour the grass purple or bright orange, we are considered odd. As we grow older, we try and put our ideas into correct boxes also. Sometimes, by doing this, we kill our stories even before starting them. Don't limit yourself. Let go of your pre-conceived notions and follow your story with all your heart.

Consistency - At the end of the day, writing comes from putting one word after the other. No matter if the words aren't coming easily, or aren't perfect - it's important to keep writing. One day something will click and all the words will come together.

We all have stories to tell. It's just that some people out there make collecting and writing stories a priority while the rest of us keep waiting for the muse to make an appearance. The funny thing is, some of the best writers didn't wait, nor believed in the muse.

'To excel in any of the arts, you must have patience, assiduity, industry and discipline'.

Somerset Maugham